Today has been quite sunny and warm, unlike last Sunday, when it was raining, especially in the morning. I had to go out last Sunday to collect a bag of food that had been sent to me, and guess what? The rain caught up with me. I had to wait for a while for it to stop before I could make my way back home.

Today, I also went out, this time to the supermarket. I wanted to get a few things for the children to snack on during the school week and pick up some things we needed at home. Nothing too serious, just the usual preparations for a new week.

Two things made me particularly happy during this little shopping trip. One was finding my preferred brand of flour back in stock. It had been missing from the supermarket for weeks, maybe even months, so when I saw it today, I was happy to get it. 

The other was the yoghurt I wanted to buy, which wasn't available. Thankfully, I still have some at home.

Lately, I've been trying to buy a little extra whenever I find certain things in stock, even when I still have some at home. Sometimes, you go to the supermarket looking for something, and it isn't there, and you might have to wait a while before it comes back. So, if I can get another pack to keep at home, why not?

Anyway, that was a little part of my Sunday. Now, let me tell you about something else I've been up to lately.

I've been watching a series called The Four of Us on TikTok!

Honestly, it's been a while since I followed a series. The last one I watched was The Wife, another South African series. I watched it on cable TV, but some months ago, our antenna got bad, and I decided not to rush into repairing it.

At first, I thought it was just a problem with the positioning, but I later realized the antenna needed to be changed. I also thought it wasn't a priority at the time, so I left it. The children have their tablets, and I figured we could manage without the cable for a while. 

Since then, I've mostly been watching movies and other things on YouTube whenever I want some entertainment. I haven't really had a series to follow.

But then came The Four of Us.

I started seeing 10-second clips from this South African series while scrolling on TikTok. You know how it is when people post short clips from a show and everyone in the comments is reacting to what happened? 😂 I kept seeing the clips and wondering what was going on. There was one particular storyline that caught my attention, and the more clips I watched, the more curious I became.

Before I knew it, I was looking for full episodes. I found an account sharing them, followed the account, and started watching.

And guys, this story!

The particular storyline I'm following involves a lady called Luthabo. She has been with a man for years, and they have a child together. From what I gathered, she's been with him for years, but he still hasn't given her the ring. They live in the family house, and his brother is also there. The interesting part? His brother is in love with her.

Now, imagine living in the same house with the man you're in a relationship with and his brother Banzi, who secretly loves you. And this brother isn't just there looking at you from a distance. They have a friendship, they share moments, and there have even been kisses. But whenever he tells her he loves her, he later acts as if he was drunk or didn't mean it. 😭

When I first came across those clips, I was like, what is going on here? This is spicy!

Things eventually got to a point where Luthabo's man wanted to marry another woman. Luthabo was already upset about how things had turned out, and when she discovered something about the woman he wanted to marry, she went and sabotaged the wedding. I don't know if I have all the details right because I didn't start watching from the beginning, but that was how I understood it.

And that incident seemed to push things forward between Luthabo and the brother Banzi. He finally made his feelings clear, and the two of them started a relationship. Of course, they had to keep it a secret because everyone knew Luthabo as the woman who was supposed to end up with his brother.

But just when things were getting interesting, the brother's ex-girlfriend Nstiki came back into the picture. She wanted him back, but he wasn't interested. She tried all sorts of things to get him to accept her again, and when she discovered that he was now with Luthabo, things got really messy.

Let's just say she became violent. And the week ended with the two lovers in a very difficult situation, with this woman threatening them and the family still struggling to accept what was going on.

Then, in the middle of all this, Luthabo's original man came back from prison and ended up saving them from the violent ex. Remember, this is the man she had been with for all those years, the father of her child. While he was in prison, he had apparently told his brother that he regretted what he had done to Luthabo and missed her.

Now he's back, and he doesn't even know that Luthabo and his brother have started dating!

So, what happens next? Does Luthabo go back to the man she's been with for sixteen years, or does she stay with the brother she's now in love with? And how is the family going to handle all this?

Honestly, I am looking forward to finding out. 😂 This week is going to be hot.

I know there are other storylines in the series, and I'm beginning to understand some of them, but for now, this is the one that has my attention. It's funny how a few short clips on social media can pull you into a whole series. I wasn't even looking for anything to watch, but here I am, following episodes and waiting to see what happens next.

A little thought about rest and laundry

Away from the series and my little supermarket trip, I have also been thinking about how much energy household chores take.

Yesterday, I did some cleaning and laundry, and by the time I was done, I was so tired. I had planned to finish the remaining cleaning today, especially the part outside, but when today came, I just didn't feel like pushing myself to do it.

I decided to leave it for another time and allow myself a little rest.

Well, I didn't rest as much as I would have liked because there were still things to do, including going to the supermarket. But at least I didn't force myself to do everything I had planned. And I'm glad about that.

I was also happy that I didn't have to cook today. Sometimes, just not having to think about preparing a meal is a relief, especially when you're already tired.

And you know what all that washing yesterday reminded me of again? My need for a washing machine.

I've been thinking about getting one for some time now, but lately, the thought keeps coming back to me. The more I do laundry, the more I think about the time and energy I could save if I had a washing machine at home.

Honestly, it's beginning to feel less like something I'd simply love to have and more like something I really need. Laundry takes so much time, and when you have other things to do, that time and energy matter.

I don't know when I'll get one, but it's definitely something I'm thinking about more seriously now.

And that's how my Sunday has been!

I'm looking forward to the new week, and I'm also looking forward to watching more episodes of The Four of Us. I really want to know how this whole situation with Luthabo and the two brothers is going to end. 😂

Anyway, that's my little update for now. I hope your Sunday has been good, and if you've been getting ready for a new week too, I hope it goes well for you.

See you in the next post!

I had been seeing people talk about the difficulty of finding taxis in Yaoundé, but it wasn't until I went out myself that I got to experience what they were talking about.

There had been a lot of discussion on social media about the new requirements for taxi drivers in the city. From what I understood, drivers were now required to obtain certain documents, including a sticker with a number and a QR code that could be used to verify the identity of the vehicle or its owner. The idea was to make it easier to identify taxis and their owners, especially in cases involving theft, kidnapping, or other security concerns.

As expected, people had different opinions about the new requirements. Some thought it was a good initiative, while others questioned whether it would actually make a difference. There were also complaints about the difficulty of finding taxis, as some drivers who had not completed the requirements could no longer operate their taxis.

Then came the day I had to go out.

I had an issue with a bill that I needed to sort out, so I went out to take care of it. When I tried to get a taxi, I noticed something I wasn't expecting. The fare for a distance I would normally pay 100 FCFA for had gone up to 150 FCFA.

I was surprised. Even the way the drivers were asking about the fare made me wonder whether something official had changed. I found myself asking one of the drivers if there had been an announcement about an increase in taxi fares.

He explained that the new requirements came with additional costs for drivers. They had to spend more money getting the necessary documents, and according to him, that was why the fares were going up.

I remember thinking, so we are the ones who have to bear the cost of all this?

He agreed. According to him, that was how it worked. The cost starts from somewhere and eventually reaches everyone else.

We had a whole conversation about it during the journey.

On the one hand, I could understand why the requirements might be useful, especially considering the security concerns surrounding public transport. Being able to verify a taxi's identity through a QR code could be helpful. At the same time, I could also understand why the additional cost would be a concern for drivers, particularly if they had to keep spending money to renew their documents.

And, of course, when the cost of providing a service goes up, the people using that service may end up paying more for it.

I couldn't help wondering how all of this would work out in the long run.

Anyway, I got to where I was going and did what I needed to do. But there was another thing I noticed that day.

The roads were unusually clear.

There were fewer taxis around, and you could really notice the difference. I had seen people online talking about how much easier it was to move around, while others complained about having to walk long distances because they couldn't find a taxi. Experiencing it myself made me understand both sides of the conversation a little better.

When it was time to return home, I decided to take a bike.

These days, I don't take motorcycle taxis as often as I used to. During my university days, I would happily take a bike when I needed to get somewhere. But over the years, I've become more cautious about using them, especially because of the way some riders drive. I'd rather take a taxi whenever I can.

But that day, taxis were not easy to find, and I didn't feel like waiting around for one. I had already made a couple of stops, and I just wanted to get home.

So I took a bike.

Interestingly, I wasn't as afraid as I usually am when I'm on one. Of course, the rider seemed careful, and I appreciated that. But I also think the state of the roads played a part. With fewer cars around, the roads were much clearer, and the journey felt less stressful than it might have on a busier day.

I was actually quite relaxed.

It was something I noticed because I'm usually more conscious of my surroundings when I'm on a bike. That day, I just sat there and enjoyed the ride without feeling as worried as I normally would.

A few days later, I went out again to collect something that had been sent to me. I took a bike on my way there, and somewhere along the way, I remembered that earlier day and the whole taxi situation.

The roads were still clearer than I was used to seeing them, and it reminded me of how much the situation had changed the way people were moving around.

I don't know how things will eventually settle or whether the new requirements will make the difference people are hoping for. I can see why a system that makes it easier to identify taxis and their owners could be useful, especially when safety is a concern. But I can also see how the additional requirements and costs could affect the drivers and, eventually, the passengers.

It was one of those days when something happening around the city became part of my own experience.

I'd heard people talking about it, and then I found myself having to adjust my own plans because of it. I paid more for a taxi than I expected, had an interesting conversation with a driver, and ended up taking a bike home without feeling as nervous as I usually do.

Hope you are doing well.

There has been a cooking gas shortage in Cameroon for the past few weeks. Well, I had my own little experience with it recently, and honestly, I didn't expect buying gas to become such an adventure. 😂

Finding Gas Wasn't Easy

I have two gas cylinders at home, but I switched to the second one the last time without getting the first one refilled. So when I needed to refill it, I thought it would be as simple as sending someone to buy it like I used to do.

It wasn't that simple.

The person I sent went to the usual places around, but there was no gas. He had to ask a commercial motorcycle rider to take him somewhere farther to find some.

Thankfully, he eventually found it, but it was 9,000 FCFA. Normally, a 12.5 kg cylinder costs around 6,500 or 7,000 FCFA, depending on what you're used to paying, so 9,000 FCFA was already a lot more than I expected. I expected the price to be higher but not as much as 9,000 FCFA.

And that wasn't even all I had to spend.

He had also spent money on transport while moving around looking for the gas, so I had to reimburse him for that. I also gave him a little extra to appreciate the effort he had made because, honestly, he could have gone to the usual places, found nothing and returned home. Instead, he kept looking until he found somewhere to buy it. In total, I spent 13,000 FCFA to get gas in Yaounde.

I was just happy he found gas.

The thing is, I had been a little worried because I didn't know how long the gas in the cylinder I am currently using would last. What if it finished before he found the other one? Imagine being in the middle of cooking and suddenly having no gas, with the other cylinder not filled. 😅

So when he finally came back with it, I was relieved.

But this whole experience got me thinking about how something as ordinary as buying cooking gas can suddenly become stressful. Usually, you know where to go, how much you're likely to pay, and roughly how long the whole thing will take. You don't expect to spend half your day looking for it or paying extra just to get what you need.

I'd already been seeing people talk about the gas shortage online, but experiencing the difficulty of finding it myself made it feel a little different.

And I kept thinking about what happens when your gas finishes and you can't find a refill. What do you do if you have food to cook and children to feed? Not everyone can keep moving from one place to another looking for gas, especially when transport and the price of gas itself are already eating into the budget.

For me, I was fortunate that the person I sent eventually found some.

Anyway, that's my little gas shortage story.

I hope things get back to normal soon because nobody should have to go through all that to buy cooking gas.

Hope you are doing well.

It's been a little while since I shared a proper life update, so I thought I'd sit down and tell you what's been happening around here lately.

A few things have changed since my last post.

The holiday is officially over, the kids are back in school, I'm trying to get myself back into a few routines, and there are a couple of things I've been working on that are taking much longer than I expected.

So, let's catch up.

And Just Like That, School Is Back

The long holiday went by so quickly.

I know I say this almost every year, but how does a holiday that feels so long when it starts suddenly become over? Lol.

One of the first signs that school has resumed in our house is the living room.

During the holiday, the children's toys seem to slowly take over the place. They spend weeks coming out whenever they want, and somehow there is always something lying around.

Now that school has started, the toys have mostly disappeared to their storage.

They come out on weekends again.

That's how I know we're back to school. 😂

The early mornings are back too.

We're waking up earlier, getting ready, making sure everyone has what they need and trying to get into the rhythm of the new school year.

And honestly, there is quite a bit that comes with starting a new school year.

It's not just about buying school supplies and paying fees. There's also the responsibility of making sure everything is in order and helping the children settle into a new routine.

You want the year to start well.

You want them to have what they need.

You want them to get comfortable with their new classes, teachers and schedules.

And then, of course, you have to get yourself used to the routine too.

After weeks of slower mornings, the alarm suddenly feels very serious again. 😂

I'm Apparently Re-Schooling Myself in Mathematics

Speaking of school, my daughter is now in Level Two of primary school, and I've been getting a little refresher course in primary-school mathematics through her homework.

And honestly, it's funny because there are things I understand now that I definitely did not understand when I was in primary school.

I actually remember struggling with some of these things myself.

I started school quite early, and I think some of the things we were being taught were simply beyond my capacity to understand at that age.

But instead of thinking, I don't understand this yet, I think I developed the mindset that mathematics was just difficult.

And once you decide something is difficult, you can easily carry that belief with you.

So now I'm sitting with my daughter trying to explain some of these things, and I'm looking at the questions thinking, Wait... this is actually not that difficult. 😂

Apparently, I'm re-schooling myself in mathematics thanks to her. By the way, during our time, we called it Arithmetic. We only met mathematics in secondary school lol.

I'm not complaining though.

It's actually been interesting to revisit some of these things as an adult and realise that I understand them differently now.

I Started a 90-Day Challenge

Another thing I've been doing lately is my own little 90-day challenge.

I'd already been thinking about doing something like this before, but then I started seeing people on TikTok talking about their 90-day challenges and sharing what they were trying to accomplish.

It motivated me to take my own idea more seriously.

So I decided to use that energy and give myself a 90-day period to really focus on a few things I want to improve and work on.

The idea is basically to spend September, October and November being more intentional, and then look back at the end of it and see what actually happened.

Of course, getting motivated to start something is one thing.

Keeping up with it is another. 😂

It's very easy to watch a few motivational videos, make a beautiful plan and feel like you're about to transform your entire life by Monday.

Then Monday comes.

And Tuesday.

And suddenly you're like, Okay... let's just take it one step at a time.

So that's where I am with it.

One step at a time.

And Yes, I'm Still Trying to Get Back Into YouTube

Part of this whole "getting back into things" also involves YouTube.

I have footage sitting on my phone from months ago that I still haven't edited.

Meanwhile, we are now in September.

At this point, I don't even know whether to call them old vlogs or historical documents. 😂

But I'm finally trying to get myself back into the rhythm of filming, editing and publishing again.

I'm hoping to start getting them out instead of letting them sit on my phone forever.

I think sometimes the hardest part isn't even starting.

It's getting yourself back into a rhythm after you've fallen out of one.

So that's another thing I'm working on.

Slowly, but surely.

My YouTube Channel.

My Plants Are Doing... Okay

My little plant corner has also been keeping me busy.

The plants I brought back from my trip are now growing, although not all survived.

Some are doing really well.

Some are just surviving.

And some didn't make it at all.

Which, I suppose, is part of gardening.

You can plant something, take care of it, wait patiently and still not get the result you wanted.

But we have new harvests! I'm so excited 😊 

My tomatoes are beginning to get ripe and they are big! I also harvest the last green pepper and hoping it will bear some more of them. I have harvested four big green peppers so far. 

I'm also dealing with a little pest problem at the moment.

Something has been attacking some of my vegetables, especially the tomatoes and green pepper plants.

I've been trying to keep on top of it by cleaning the leaves regularly and removing the pests whenever I find them.

Some of the tomato plants seem to be more affected than others, so I'm still watching them and hoping I can keep them under control.

My snake plants are giving me a completely different problem.

They are growing so much that they're starting to outgrow their container.

And I know what I need to do.

I need to repot them.

Or divide them.

Or separate some of the new shoots.

Something.

But for some reason, I keep overthinking the whole thing.

I look at the container, look at the plants, think about how I'm going to separate everything, think about the soil I'll need, and then somehow I end up doing nothing.

😂

I've been saying for a while that I need to deal with them, so maybe this is the year I finally do it.

I'm Still Figuring Out My Ankara Business

And then there's my Ankara handmade business.

Yes, I'm still working on it.

Well... working on it might be a generous way of putting it because a lot of what I've been doing lately is thinking, planning, changing my mind, thinking some more and trying to figure out exactly what I want to make.

It's taking a while.

Sometimes that bothers me because I really would like to see myself moving faster.

I want to have the ideas, make the things, take the pictures, put them out there and just get on with it.

But I'm also learning that I don't want to rush myself into making things I'm not completely comfortable with.

I'm still figuring out what I actually want this little business to look like and what I would be happy creating and selling.

And I think that's more important to me than simply being able to say, I launched.

So yes, it's taking longer than I thought.

But I don't regret taking the time.

It's not about getting everything perfect.

I just want to feel comfortable and happy with what I'm doing.

And hopefully, I'll have something to show you soon.

That's Life Lately

So that's what's been happening around here.

The holiday is over and the school routine is back.

The toys have returned to their weekend schedule.

I'm apparently re-learning primary-school mathematics.

I'm attempting a 90-day challenge and reminding myself that motivation is great, but consistency is where the real work begins.

I'm trying to get back into YouTube, despite having footage from months ago sitting on my computer.

My plants are growing, fighting pests, outgrowing their containers and generally keeping me entertained.

And I'm still figuring out my Ankara business, one idea at a time.

I'm just getting back into things, paying attention to what feels right, and taking it one step at a time.

See you in the next update. 🌿

Hi my Radiants,

Hope you are doing well. Happy September.

It's been a few weeks since my last post, and honestly, not much has happened. At least, nothing that I thought was important enough to sit down and write about.

But I've been thinking about this blog and what I want to share here, and I've realised that it doesn't always have to be something that happened.

Sometimes it could be something I noticed, I found interesting, or I saw online that made me think, apart from the simple little things that happened in my everyday life that I feel like sharing.

So I'm leaning into that a little more.

And one of the things that has made me particularly happy lately is my little green pepper.

My Green Pepper Finally Grew!

If you've been following my little plant adventures, you might remember this one.

Before I travelled, I had a plant growing in one of my containers and I wasn't even completely sure what it was.

Related: What Happened After We Came Back Home | New Plants, Preserving Food & Settling In

I suspected it was a green pepper, but I wasn't certain.

I had planted some green pepper seeds a while ago and, after waiting for what felt like forever, I eventually forgot about them. I had completely given up on seeing anything grow.

Then one day, this little plant appeared.

When it started growing, I became curious because the leaves looked much bigger than the regular pepper plant I had grown before. The plant's whole structure also looked different.

So I had my suspicions.

Maybe this was actually the green pepper I had been waiting for.

Then I travelled.

Before leaving, I was worried about my plants because I didn't know how long I would be away or how I would keep them watered. I tried to figure out a way to give them a regular supply of water, but it didn't work out the way I had hoped.

So I moved them to the more open part of my balcony where they could at least get some rain if it rained.

When I came back, some of the plants were looking a little weak because it hadn't rained for a while.

Related: Holiday Days, Travel, Family Time Food & Little Things | Life Lately In Cameroon

I watered them and started taking care of them again.

And then, sometime after that, I noticed flowers.

I was excited because I thought, okay, this is it. Now we'll finally know what this plant is.

And eventually, two of the flowers produced fruit.

That's when I knew.

It really was a green pepper!

I was so happy. 😂

There were actually several flowers, but most of them didn't make it. They would appear, start growing, and then turn yellow and fall off.

But these two survived.

And I got to use my very own homegrown green pepper to cook.

The first one I used was fine and tasted just like a green pepper should.

The second one was interesting because it had a surprisingly strong pepper smell. It actually smelled more like the hot pepper we usually use here.

I don't know if that was because it was grown naturally or if that's just how that particular pepper was, but I used it anyway.

I put it in my stew and later used it to make jollof rice.

And honestly, I was just happy that I had grown something that I could actually eat.

I wish the other flowers had survived because I would have had quite a little harvest by now.

But I'm grateful for these two.

Hopefully, the plant will produce more.

The Other Plants

My other plants have been having their own little stories too.

The plants I brought back from my trip have now been planted.

Unfortunately, not all of them survived.

Some tried to germinate but eventually withered and died. Others seem to have settled in quite well, though, so I'm hoping they continue growing.

I also have tomatoes growing.

I didn't even intentionally plant them.

They just appeared.

Now the tomatoes are growing and flowering too, and I'm waiting to see what happens next.

The End of the Holiday

And just like that, the long holiday is coming to an end.

This is actually the last week of the holiday, and school starts next week.

So we're back to preparing for the new school year and putting together the last few things the kids need before school starts.

But honestly, it's been a good holiday.

The kids have had a good time, we've rested, and they've also spent a lot of time at home learning little things along the way.

Sometimes they come into the kitchen while I'm cooking and watch what I'm doing.

They've also been willing to help, which I really enjoy.

There is something nice about watching them learn these little everyday things at home.

So even though the routine is about to start again and we'll soon have to wake up earlier and get everyone ready for school, I'm grateful for the holiday we've had.

It was a chill one.

And I think we needed that.

And Yes, I've Been Drinking More Tea

I've also been drinking a lot more tea lately.

Remember when I took out my teapot again and started making tea?

Well, tea has officially become one of my regular favourite things lately.

I've been having it quite often, sometimes even twice a day.

I travelled with my tea the last time. 😂

And now that I'm back, I've been enjoying different kinds.

I've been making tea from some of the herbs I brought back from the trip, and I've also been making different drinks with the green tea leaves I have.

There's something about having a warm cup of tea that I really enjoy, especially when I'm at home and everything is quiet.

So yes, tea has somehow become part of life again lately.

Hi my Radiants,

Hope you are doing well.

After spending some days away with family, we eventually came back home, and one of the first things I wanted to check was my plants.

Before I left, I had moved most of them from the front of the house to the back where they would be more exposed to rain. I had initially tried to figure out how to keep them watered while I was away, but that wasn't really working out the way I had hoped.

Since I wasn't sure how long I would be away, I thought it was better to leave them somewhere they could at least get some water if it rained.

So when I came back, I was curious to see how they were doing.

Thankfully, they were doing quite well.

My plants when I returned

My plants before I left

Ready to to be frozen

Plants looking tired from the journey and maybe because I didn't plant them immediately

See the soil I was managing. I need more soil

Sorted the plants by type

I really want this flower to grow.

This one too.

I wish I had more soil, I would have given this yam another chance.

It was already evening when I was done planting. I tried o

It looks good now, but figuring out how to plant it was such a task

After all the plant business, I also had some food to deal with.

I came back with some potatoes, and I eventually used some of them to make pomme pilé.

If you're not familiar with it, ponpilé is a Cameroonian dish made with Irish potatoes and beans, which are pounded together.

The kids really enjoyed it.

They ate it so well that I was happy I had made it.

I also really like the way I make mine, so if you'd like to try it, I have shared my recipe for the best pomme pilé here:

Related: Pomme Pilee Recipe 

Yum

So that was life after coming back home. Thanks for reading, and I'll see you in my next one.